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Snowing again in Poland! |
On Friday we attended our ‘Polish for Beginners’ class and
the lecturer began the seminar with a discussion about the ‘Phases of Cultural
shock’. It had never occurred to me about these phases, especially as I was
having such a fantastic time in Poznan. However, the lecturer outlined the
phases like this:
Phase 1: The Honeymoon Stage
Phase 2: How can I live like this? What am I doing here? I want to go home!
Phase 3: Let’s try to survive and be happy!
We discussed the elements that can create this unsettled and
anxious feeling within Phase 2. We agreed that one of the major issues could be
the difficulty to express ourselves, including the language barriers and the
differences in facial expressions and body language in different cultures. We
also agreed that this can be a lack of familiar surroundings and ‘home comforts’.
I jokingly said to my French classmate that I must still be in the honeymoon
phase, as I was still very happy and content.
Just after our class |
By Sunday I had a sore throat, a cough, a temperature
and my asthma was beginning to get irritated. I was invited to a friend’s
birthday party and I did everything I could to ignore my symptoms but in the
end I gave up and had to lie in bed. At that moment, all I wanted was a cup of
my mother’s honey and milk remedy and to lie in my bed watching television. However, my Turkish friend used his mother’s remedy to get rid of my
temperature, using cold wet cloths, which actually really helped.
Our tram stop |
The next day, I thought back to ‘The Phases of Cultural shock’ and decided to investigate it. There seems to be a difference in
opinion about how many stages there are, such as Pederson (1995) who states
there are five. Nonetheless, they all seem to agree upon the same principals of
a ‘Honeymoon’, ‘Negotiation’, ‘Adjustment’ and ‘Mastery phase’, however,
unfortunately Pederson (1995) states that individuals only begin to settle into
a culture after 3 months, which will be when I am leaving!
This week really made me think about my attitude
to growing up and leaving my family home, for some reason I seemed in a rush. It
reminded me of something I had read in a book called ‘The other Belfast’;
‘home is a place you grow up, wanting to leave, and grow old
wanting to get back to’ (Rickerby, 2011).
I’m feeling much better now but I'm going to take it easier so
that I can fully recover over the next few days!
References:
Pederson, P. 1995 'The Five stages of Cultural shock:
Critical Incidents Around the World'. ABC.
Picoult, J. 2009 'Handle with Care' Simon and Schuster,
Rickerby, J,S. 2011 'The other Belfast' Xlibris Corporation